The language of love may be universal, but when it comes to romance, men and women are words apart. Bridge the communication gap and learn the truth about what he'll find utterly irresistible. In this book, men reveal their wildest fantasies, secret soft spots, and all the little things that make them go weak in the knees.

As you read, you'll quickly realize romance is as much about satisfying your desires as it is about satisfying his. Stimulating strategies and suggestions will help you fulfill the potential of a first date or renew the thrill in a lifelong love.

EXCERPT. MEET THE WARRIOR IN TRANSITION

There once was a woman who fell in love. She ran to her new love with open arms and open heart, and she gave him her best time, her best thoughts, and lots and lots of energy. The joy in her love was so profound that she was willing to sacrifice everything for him. And so she sacrificed her individuality for the relationship, her personal friends for mutual friends, and her personal time doing what she wanted to do for time doing what they as a couple wanted to do.

After a few years, she felt that she was doing all the work to keep the relationship going. She was still giving her best time, her best thoughts and lots and lots of energy. And her partner was merely going to work every day and coming home, expecting her to be happy.

“I don’t feel loved,” she said to the man.
“But I’m doing all these things for you,” he said. “I go to work every morning. I play with the children when I come home. I fix things around the house on the weekends.”
The woman was also going to work every morning, and she had taken on responsibilities for housework and childcare. “You’re not doing these things for me,” she answered. “You’re doing them because they need to be done. You would do them whether or not I was in your life. This does not help me feel loved.”

So much of what we see depends on where we are standing when we look. Although we know what we’re giving, we don’t know what is received.