Lucy Sanna

Based on substantial research and including fun exercises, this book reveals the most intimate desires of women. You can easily develop a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with your own partner--in imaginative and often fantastically fun ways.

We can all imagine the grand romantic moments: the passionate embrace for the returning hero, the starlight dance on the deck of a cruise ship, the dinner for two by a campfire on a mountain peak. You’ve seen them in movies, and you may have even experienced similar events yourself. Such grand moments can certainly be quite romantic, but lasting romance exists in a continuum of smaller things that you and your partner do to please each other on a regular basis.

When love is in first bloom, romance is fun and easy. You are both on your best, willing to pay loads of attention to each other just to please and be pleased. Later, however, as you greet each other every day—and not always at your best—you may find that the romantic bloom is buried under the snow of daily maintenance. To be sure, long-term relationships that have matured with love offer many compensating qualities, including trust, mutual acceptance, and companionship; and it is unreasonable to expect the early excitement to return. But there are many ways that you can break through the daily grind and reach toward a new kind of romance.

In fact, opportunities exist all around you—opportunities for you to spontaneously “romance” your partner. Unfortunately, such opportunities all too often pass unnoticed. How can you prepare in advance to take advantage of these opportunities?

…. Based on what women have told us they want, we offer many activities for you to try. But don’t think you have to try them all. For starters, choose one romantic action you can practice on a regular basis, something that’s comfortable for you…. Once you’ve got that one down, you’re ready to add something else to your romantic repertoire.

Soon you’ll be thinking of all sorts of possibilities every time you’re with your lady, as well as when you’re away from her. You’re suddenly a spontaneous romantic—having fun pleasing her—and reaping additional rewards that are sure to come as she pleases you back. Now you’ve got the romantic spirit.

Your romantic attitude will lead to a more open, more communicative, and deeper relationship in which you learn of each other’s needs and desires. And that can only lead to a better way of relating in general. She’ll begin to be more romantic as well eager to serve your needs and desires.